Remember these words:
"As the little girl of a big strong, dad, I think of my own dad (awnry as he can be) as invincible, super-heroish and untouchable"
Wow. Someone wanted me to eat those words.
Mr. don't take care of me Dennis, or "Pop" as I like to call him, spent some time airborne on Friday. He then spent a little more time unconscious, quite awhile confused, then about one miserable night rooming with another man at the University hospital. A bruised brain, a gimp in his step, some slightly offended nurses, and some unreal expectations about when he will be getting back on Tombstone (his horse). The doctors told him 4 weeks, I give him 4 days. I'd like to give him more than that, namely a smack on the back of the head, and also a helmet, but the stubborn man loves his horse. I expect to pull up to my grandmas one morning, and next to Tombstone on the ground will be a little blankie with my dad curled up sleeping next to him. Because he misses him. Though, he might wake up bald, because I've heard Kyles horse like to eat hair.
I still love this man with all of my giddy, school-girl, melting heart. In 1989 he lived in California for a few months finishing up a job, I would miss him so bad. We had these two lazyboy chairs in the basement, and if I sat on them with my legs swung over one arm, I could lean up against the back of the chair and it felt like I was sitting on his lap, leaning up against his chest. Sometimes I would nap like this. And though he didn't eat any of the sandwiches I left in his lunchbox every night(when he was with us, not in CA), he walk away somewhat ok from his 53year old rodeo. So I guess he has redeemed himself. Now if he what just be patient and HEAL for crying out loud!
I wasn't going to write about this on my blog, and I am sure he won't be happy to know I did. I didn't even tell the girls at work (mostly out of fear of falling apart and needing to go home). But as I told Brent, it is kind of healing to write about things. Sometimes you just need to get things off your chest.
Speaking of getting things off your chest... Mom? I want you to know I was also hanging on the towel bar swinging with Kyle when we ripped it off the wall in the bathroom. Only he got in trouble, for some strange reason. But I feel redeemed because my back hit the toilet and it really, really hurt.
And a picture. I hate a post without a picture. So go here to see Hadleys reaction to "Tell grandma how much you love Teletubbies." My SIL Jocleynne snapped a pict of it perfectly at Parkers party.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Healing Part II
Posted by "Jo" in many sizes at 12:50 PM
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so now the truth comes out!! was Kyle punished for it?? you know I do not have a lot of memory when it comes to those days way back then, it was Gods way of keeping me from going completely insane. I had forgotten all about it tell now.
Yes I think he got punished. Maybe I should make him some cookies?
good idea,, tell him they were made by me
I'm glad he's doing better. Poor Kyle. I know how it feels to be blamed for everything.
Funny what stories come out as the kids get older and decide it's finally safe to tell the truth. I don't know if it's cuz they figure we can't do anything about it, or it's just a healthy clensing of the soul! Whatever, sometimes I know from personal history, I'd rather stay in the dark...
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